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Am I being swayed, or am I being flexible?

Ever felt like you keep changing your mind when others disagree with you?


I have always valued the fact that I do not care much about prestige.


If I am wrong about something or if someone has a better idea than me, I’m happy to change my mind.


But at one point (when I was working with some very opinionated people) I started using this as an excuse to change my mind when discussions were getting too heated, too aggressive.


I started changing my mind to avoid the conflict, rather than being convinced by a better argument.


I quickly realised that I needed to work on this, because me changing my mind around like a sail in the wind, was not only affecting me but everyone working with me.


I recognised that many people were actually happier when I sticked to what you believe rather than seek agreement for the sake of agreement.


To be able to stand up to my own convictions, even during the tough discussions, I remind myself of the following (I still need to practice this every day):


🥘 Make sure I am ready for any tough discussion by having had enough to eat and sleep before. My willpower will be my saviour.


🧘 Stick to my idea, and have patience, although it might not be successful to begin with. If I have based my idea on experience, research, and gut feeling, it will turn out positive with time.


🆗 It is ok that people disagree with me.


Of course, I still change my mind on things, but then I make sure I know why, and transparently communicate that to the concerned people.


What do you do to stand your ground in a tough discussion? I would love to hear about it in the comments below 👇👇





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